A song can’t bring someone all the way back, but sometimes three minutes is enough. If you grew up in the 1980s and went to a school dance, you knew exactly what it meant when “Stairway to Heaven” came on. The night was over. Or almost over. The DJ had one last trick. Parents were waiting outside. The gym lights were still low enough to make everyone look a little better than they did in English. And if you were lucky, you had eight minutes to hold someone close and pretend y

Written by Mark J. Resnick Each week, each day, each hour can feel like a long exhale that never quite ends when you’re a caregiver. It’s not always dramatic. Sometimes it’s just the steady drip of it. The calendar that looks like a game of Tetris. The phone calls you can’t ignore. The mental checklist you keep running even while you’re brushing your teeth. The way your body stays half-on, even when you’re technically sitting down. And if you don’t have something that fuels y

This weekend, I had a long stretch of driving and train time—enough hours to think about 2026 and what I want the next chapter of my life to look like. There were podcasts in my ears, moments of quiet reflection, and yes, a nap or two. Even when my body slowed down, my mind didn’t. It kept circling the same thoughts. There were flashes of excitement—those moments when you imagine a life with more space, more purpose, more peace. And then there were moments of doubt that follo

This week's blog post isn't one piece with a central theme. More like musings from the week—three conversations and experiences that...

The healthcare industry is evolving rapidly, balancing patient expectations, regulatory compliance, staffing shortages, and tightened...

A couple of weekends ago, Coleen and I visited Campbell in Richmond. We had some great meals, spent quality time together, and took in a...

The loss of my wife Lynda on June 6, 2024, was difficult and deeply painful. I am still in disbelief after six months of not hearing her...

The loss of my wife Lynda on June 6, 2024, was difficult and deeply painful. I am still in disbelief after six months of not hearing her...

Last week, I split my time in San Diego between vacation and work—a change from how I used to travel, which was mainly work-focused. As...

Last week, I split my time in San Diego between vacation and work—a change from how I used to travel, which was mainly work-focused. As I get older, I realize that taking time to recharge is not a luxury; it’s essential. This is especially true for caregivers. The pressure is unrelenting when you’re responsible for someone else’s well-being. Getting stuck in a rut or feeling burned out isn’t just a risk; it’s a reality. Caregiving is a unique experience. The constant demands

As caregivers, it's easy to get lost in the demands of looking after our loved ones, often pushing aside our needs and desires. The idea...

As caregivers, it's easy to get lost in the demands of caring for our loved ones, often pushing aside our own needs and desires. The idea of celebrating—whether it's a birthday, a wedding, or even just a night out with friends—can feel like an added burden when we're already exhausted, sad, and lonely. But the truth is, celebrating life's milestones is not just important; it's essential for our well-being. I was reminded of this when I watched the men’s USA gymnastics team wi

Lynda (Testa) Tenaglia passed away on June 6, 2024, after a long and courageous battle with cancer. She was the beloved wife of 54 years...

Lynda (Testa) Tenaglia passed away on June 6, 2024, after a long and courageous battle with cancer. She was the beloved wife of 54 years...

By Michael D. Tenaglia Caregiving is the activity or profession of regularly caring for a sick, elderly, or disabled person. It can be...

By Michael D. Tenaglia Caregiving is the activity or profession of regularly caring for a sick, elderly, or disabled person. It can be...

The Sweetness of Possibility The Easy Bake oven Mom got me for Christmas was the highlight of my Christmas that year. It also prompted my...

The Sweetness of Possibility The Easy Bake oven Mom got me for Christmas was the highlight of my Christmas that year. It also prompted my...

During the first four months of the pandemic, I made more than 250 loaves of sourdough bread. My second favorite item to bake was...

During the first four months of the pandemic, I made more than 250 loaves of sourdough bread. My second favorite item to bake was...